“Hayley Home Alone”

(Continued from “Hayley Comes a Cropper”).

What if Hayley Cropper had lived at home alone?

Sent home with a diagnosis of terminal cancer, only headlines and TV to turn to.  No time or motivation for bucket lists and happy endings.

Denial is maybe the best solo tactic until you can’t cope with the pain and the drowning rain of “why me?” emotions.

On your own, you can’t pass this burden onto now distant family or passing-by friends.

The State has virtually deserted home care and left it to less skilled domiciliary care agency staff.  If you are lucky you will be within reach of more specialist voluntary sector cancer support, like McMillan Nurses or charitably funded hospice care.

Your GP will be there to offer some help but it will be severely time limited.  Unless he is like Dr Harold Shipman who took time out of his busy schedule to help his patients to a swifter death than they might have liked.  Or a more recent GP who helped his daughter to inherit a terminally patient’s house before helping his patient to die. These are surely rare examples.

  Time is the bigger thief for those needing comfort and support.

Where is the NHS when you need them ? 

See Next Week’s Chilling Episode

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“Hayley Comes a Cropper”

For the past few months Britain’s most popular TV soap has been running the storyline that a key, long-serving character – Hayley Cropper – has terminal cancer.   Three nights a week “Coronation Street” took us through the emotional roller coaster of cancer.

The fear and apprehension while waiting for the initial diagnosis.

The dreaded “C   ” word —- a lightening bolt of news.

To make the bad news even worse ” terminal” is added.

The scared secrecy of not wanting people to know.

Unwanted sympathy when they do know.

Attempts to carry on as if nothing has happened.

The “bucket list” of things to do before you die.

Hurry to put the wrongs of a lifetime, to right in a moment.

It was a fearful and heart-rending portrayal of some of the emotions of a terminal diagnosis, brought to the attention of a greater than usual 10 million viewers.

As you would hope with your TV soap, it came to a happy ending, or at least as happy as death can be.   Hayley died at home in the arms of her loving husband Roy.

Now wake up!

The adverts are on, Hayley’s not dead, she is an actress.   Soap’s happy endings are not reality TV.   If they were, the storyline could have been much harder to watch.

See next week’s thrilling episode

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“Bright Sun and Long Shadows”

A mild January day, no plans and no excuses.   Time to take a step on my Health Ladder – Tai Chi in the garden first, porridge and honey next.

Then it’s all new walking boots and Christmas present socks and brand new scarf.

It is a misty damp morning, but a swan and a gaggle of ducks greet me when I get out of the car to start my country walk.   Must remember some bread next time.   Then perhaps they will waddle away looking a bit happier to see me.

As I step off the road into a path through the fields, it becomes increasingly wet under foot.   The bad news is the new boots are completely waterproof, so no excuses to turn back.   Rising up the hill is all asthma puffers and short of breath.   This is an official right of way with signposts and white marker discs to show you the route ahead.   Why don’t they think of seats at regular intervals along the way?

A good news reward higher up the hill – the mist disappears and there are fine views with distant houses drawn in sharp feature by the low winter sun.   The mist adds mystery by painting several distant horizons in increasingly lighter shades of blue-grey.

Birds scatter in alarm as I approach, but surprisingly the sheep hold  their ground.   I am in their field after all.   For the first time close up I notice that sheep are heavily into ear-piercing.   Some have blue earings, others have yellow.   The farmer certainly knows the difference, I hope the sheep don’t.   I guess there must be a “Liverpool Care Pathway” for sheep.

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Enough of my winter wanderings.   I head off back to the pub for a liquid lunch which will add back all the calories I’ve lost.

Still, I feel better for it and it made me reflect.   Everyone has periods of bright sun in lives, but also times can be often shrouded in mist.   In later life, we would all hope to have cast long shadows which are a mark of our accomplishments.

As people get older, we need to find the bright sun and long shadows in everyone.

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“Double Triple Talk”

Continued from two previous posts.

In making his New Year announcement on maintaining the pension triplelock until 2020, the Prime Minister said it was a choice based on his values – “I want people, when they reach retirement, to know they can have dignity and security in their old age”.

He obviously has not been out much lately.  Certainly not to the NHS with hospitals overflowing with older people.  Nor to Social Services, overwhelmed by demands for domiciliary care they can no longer afford.  Definitely not to the many thousands of isolated older people, lonely and cold in their own homes in the community.

Meanwhile, the very next day, his Chancellor unravels the Prime Minister’s promise by saying that major cuts are still to come in the welfare benefits budget, which will hit the lest well off pensioners hardest.  At the same time, Iain Duncan Smith, the Work and Pensions Secretary, added that he wanted to remove the entitlement to winter fuel allowances, free bus passes and free TV licenses for better off pensioners.

There won’t be quite so much dignity and security left when all this double talk about the triplelock has finished.

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“Triplelock Triple Take”

The “Triplelock” was introduced in 2010 and intended to give reassurance to pensioners about their income from the State.  It links annual state pension increases to the highest of inflation, average wage increases or 2.5%.

Sounds simple enough, but everything is not quite what it seems.

Inflation used to be defined as R.P.I – the Retail Price Index.  Then it got changed to C.P.I. – the Consumer Price Index which somehow ended up lower than R.P.I. That’s the first of the triplelocks unlocked.

Wages since 2010 have been held down by Government austerity measures – unless you are a banker or politician.  That’s the second of the triplelocks unlocked.

So that just leaves the 2.5% which is a number that can’t be changed – unless we erode pensioners’ savings, dramatically reduce the value of annuities and eliminate final salary pensions.  That’s the third triplelock unlocked.

Hey Presto! Politicians promises

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“Pension Double Take”

David Cameron has suddenly rediscovered pensioners.  In his New Year’s resolutions for 2014, he has announced a vote-catching promise to extend the triplelock on pension increases for the life of the next Parliament.    Sounds good  ?????

In Daily Mail speak that translates to a headline grabbing:-

£1000 a year by 2020

Sounds almost too good to be true – so let’s work it out.  From April 2014 the basic state pension is £113.10 per week:-

  • plus 2.5% in 2015 = 115.93
  • plus 2.5% in 2016 = 118.82
  • plus 2.5% in 2017 = 121.80
  • plus 2.5% in 2018 = 124.84
  • plus 2.5% in 2019 = 127.96
  • plus 2.5% in 2020 = 131.16

A bit of a slow burn promise and of course it only applies if the conservatives are re-elected in the 2015 general election.   Oh and not in Scotland if you vote for Independence.

Still, an extra £20 per week is not to be sneezed at, even if you catch a cold with energy prices rising by 10% a year.  The good news is that the other political parties are likely to follow Mr Cameron’s lead rather than risk losing 12 million pensioners’ votes.   If that happens, we will be back at square one with nothing much to choose between the political parties as far as pensions are concerned.

Meanwhile:-

  • Hospitals are filling up with older people;
  • Domiciliary care has all but disappeared;
  • Savings rates remain at zero;
  • Energy and food costs keep rising.

So That’s Alright Then!

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“Stay Active, Stay Young” 2

Just before Christmas 2013 I was writing about the importance for older people of staying active (click on this link to see the earlier blog –  Stay Active, Stay Young).

In response to the blog, I received a reply from my most prolific commentor – David Freeman.   David has posted over 100 comments on the blog over the last 12 months, each of which uniquely add to my views in a humorous and well informed way.

David is a great example of the philosophy espoused in the title of this blog.   I’m far too polite to ask how old he is, but judging by the depth of his knowledge I would guess he must be at least 96 🙂 or maybe even older 🙂 :-).    Nonetheless he enjoys a host of activities both old and new – the list is endless and no doubt some of them are just in his wishful imagination e.g. chasing young girls.   For a better description of them, see David’s comment in the blog mentioned above, but below is Tommy Graham’s illustration of some of the things David seems to be getting up to.

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It’s a lively spirit and a positive view on life that enables people to overcome the challenges of advancing years.   By the time he reads this blog, David, will no doubt, be 36 again !

Let me use this as an opportunity to thank David for everything he has contributed to the blog over the years and hope he will continue to post comments in the years ahead.

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“Granny Knows Best”

After multi-million pounds have been spent on medical research into heart disease, the drug industry came up with a new wonder drug “STATINS”.  Now the accepted drug of choice for many doctors and millions of their pill hungry patients.  In fact 5.2 million people are estimated to be eligible to take the drug in the UK.  In some quarters it is agreed that everyone over 50 should be offered them – that is 17.6 million people.  A zillion pills, lots of busier doctors and millions of pounds for the tax payer to pay since most of the recipients get free prescriptions.

For my elderly friend, Pilly Galore, Statins are the latest must have designer drug of the day.  Pilly would not be seen without one.  (See earlier Pilly blogs by clicking on “PILLS” in the TAG CLOUD).

An inconvenient piece of research at Oxford University reported in the British Medical Journal comes to a rather simpler conclusion.

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Whereas prescribing Statins to 17.6 million older people would reduce heart attacks and strokes by 9,400 a year, it does potentially have side effects of diabetes for 10,000 people.

However, an apple a day for the 22 million Britons over 50 could avert 8,500 deaths.

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“iPhone Geek”

As a new old geek on the block, whenever I go out now it is essential that I can be in contact with all my Facebook, Twittering, Texting friends at all times.    So I need a mobile phone.    Not one of those box sized, brick weight phones that first came out.

I have to have the latest model mobile with 3G, 4G or probably by tomorrow 5G.    I don’t know what “G” stands for but obviously the more “G’s” the better.    Maybe it stands for “Geek”.

Phones are fashion items amongst my arcade mates, so I need one with all the bells and whistles.    Except phones don’t have bells anymore, they were replaced by ring tones.    The only problem is that I keep putting my new MP3 player to my ear when my phone ring tone goes off.    Still, Vera Lynn singing “White Cliffs of Dover” is very recognisable down the arcade.

Talking to yourself used to be one of the signs of advancing years.    But now I can do it with impunity.    Most of my young friends seem to be talking to themselves all the time.

Except of course when they are TXTING.    That’s a whole new world of communication which I have yet to master.    It means you can relay every idle thought every minute of every day.    Providing you can type while you walk, or even in the middle of a conversation with some else.    TXTING is one of those new multi-tasking ideas that allows you never to have to concentrate on one thing for long.    It is a sort of new age dementia.

Finally, my new phone is also a camera and I already have some excellent shots of my feet and some really captivating photos of the toffee paper in my trouser pocket.

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Geeky New Year

New Years Day  everywhere is supposed to be closed for the bank holiday, but not the internet which is 24 / 7 / 365.    Ever alert  / ever available / everywhere.

So to mix my media.   I was reading last year’s article in the Sunday Times supplement 31/12/2013, which was an interview with Ray Kurzwell about technology in the future.   He should know, he is Google’s Director of Engineering , and here is one of his future geek thoughts for the not too faraway years ahead :-

Driverless Cars are just around the corner  –

  •  that should be the end of Jeremy Clarkson – no more boy’s toys;
  • Even better, if speed is controlled and the Highway Code is embedded in the auto chauffer programme, we won’t need traffic police any more and all those little white vans hiding behind hedges can be sent to the scrap heap 🙂
  • No more speeding fines,  no more parking tickets;
  • No more accidents,  no need for seat belts,  drink while you are driven 🙂
  • Taxi drivers throughout the world will be redundant, although you will probably find yourself at some wrong destinations from time to time;
  • Their will be no more of those endlessly repeated ” police, camera, action” videos on TV;
  • no need for driving licences – DVLA will just exist to issue personalised number plates.

     A    BRAVE   NEW   DRIVERLESS   WORLD

Always assuming:-

  • you have implicit faith in computers never going wrong;
  • that everyone else has a driverless computer-controlled car;
  • and that pigs can fly !
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